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Family Counselling is a profession that is best left to counsellors. If your lawyer begins to sound more like a counsellor, this is not what you are paying a lawyer to do. Please see finding a good divorce lawyer.
Your inital step is to find a counsellor, whom you feel comfortable with, to help you through the emotional divorce. Once you have done that, you are on you way to healing and perhaps, finding loving again.
We, as human beings are blessed with the ability to speak, along with a tone of voice and body language which aid our message. We are blessed with the ability to hear and perceive what others wish to communicate to us.
So, why do we have such a universal problem with communicating? We were not trained in effective communication, those who are skilled have made it a priority to learn, or we simply choose not to communicate for many reasons. We are also prdoucts of our environments and stressors strongly influence the effectiveeness of our communication.
Does Divorce have to be costly?
Yes! If one or both spouses cannot properly let go of all the grief issues associated with ending the emotional, financial, spiritual and physical ties that bind them. For more, click here.
The Complicated Nature of Grief in Divorce
Divorce is considered number two on the stress scale, second to the loss of a spouse or child. This shows us how profound an experience divorce is.
The decision to divorce and the consequences last a lifetime, affecting everyone in your circle.
Grief in divorce, as in death, is difficult, built on many layers, and does not follow a neat linear path. Click here to read the rest.
Helping Children If children are involved, Risa tells them her
story as well. "The best work I do," she says, "is helping kids make the
transition." Risa explains the different developmental stategs their
children will go through and what they can expect outside the divorce,
and then they apply it to their situation.
Contact Information
Risa Ennis Family Mediation and Counselling Services
Telephone: (416) 636-2946
Email: risasmediation@rogers.com
Email: risasmediation@live.com
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Footnote: Risa has authored another site which expressly discusses how to tame your ego or, how to have a healthy ego. There are several more articles about common concerns and a page with links to various associations that risa is involved with, such as Divorce Magazine. Please visit Taming Your Ego for more information.
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